Amen to that! Ever since I've been in church as a little girl, overseas missions have been a large focus of church tithe monies....and there were folks in church that had no electricity or running water...and not by choice. There were very poor families in our community and all around us, but no one would give to them before these overseas missions. They felt like they should be able to decide if these people were "deserving" of the tithe...if they didn't feel they were making wise choices, they didn't get money. Well, not everyone makes wise choices all the time....these are just the people that the churches need to befriend, to teach, to help.
I don't recall anywhere in the Bible where Jesus said to only give to those who deserve it...it just says give cheerfully. I assume He will take care of the rest.
The church I currently attend is the same way...they are much more comfortable, it seems, sending a check to someone they cannot see than they are visiting a home where the floors are rotting from under the people living there.
I started tithing in the community long ago and strongly believe that a church will grow in numbers if they only look for the need in their own communities first.