New duck going crazy

You are right that the new duck is very frightened. That's understandable, since her old flock has disappeared and everything is new and unknown. I would avoid too much pressure on her at this point (so, no more picking her up and holding her for a while). Can you divide your duck pen so that the two ducks are side by side but separated by a barrier (like some wire or plastic mesh)? This would allow them to get to know each other safely and gradually. Try to avoid things that the duck may find threatening, like being stared at. Give her some space (just change food and water and leave treats in the pen). She needs to learn that you are non-threatening and a source of good things. At 8 weeks she is just a baby She is probably a bit young to go in with an adult. Maybe try again in a couple of weeks if they seem to be getting on ok through the mesh barrier.

I'm sure that all this is not the way you pictured it though.... Let us know how things are going. I'm sure that others will have advice and ideas too

 

If it helps, we are in the process of introducing new buffs to the runner/Romy flock.

The idea is that to have a few other buffs like herself might be some kind of small comfort, or at least a distraction, for Romy after losing her bff.

Einz still yells, sometimes Fünf yells, we have had some sumo wrestling, a couple of runners chasing Romy, or other runners, Carmella and Hazel (new buffs) wrestling, lots of edgy energy.

It is not pretty.

And, it is normal and healthy - duck relationships are sophisticated and complex. Really. I am not trying to be funny. And they have to work it out, and that takes time.

I keep asking myself, "are we there yet??" We will get there. But in the meantime I am sad and a little tense because it is not fun for me. A number of runners, and the new drake, Bean, and Romy mostly, hang back and don't get involved in the agida. For that I am eternally grateful.

So. Have some nice herbal tea, talk to the ducks quietly from a distance, do as 70%cocoa suggests. And remember you are doing a good thing. Bubbles needs company. And eight week old ducks tend to be extremely hypervigilant. It is their survival mechanism.

 

When I added my two Old Ladies (as we affectionally call them!) to our flock, they acted peculiarly. The first evening, they both ran straight from the crate directly into the pen. Based on my quick observation the next morning, the flock looked really together, but as soon as I opened the gate allow free range time, total chaos broke out. The Old Ladies took off South and I literally chased them around the field for at least an hour. What worked very well for us was setting up a temporary fence (just the 3' tall green garden stuff) complete with food and water, and the Old Ladies got to meet the flock thru the fence. My ducks were super curious about the newcomers, but it worked really well here. My neighbor told me to be prepared to do this for a month or longer, however I think it took no longer than 2 weeks. Ymmv. I say biggest message is be patient.