New development with the Grid. At 4 PM to about 6 PM Hagrid becomes a play bully with my wife. Conveniently, I’m not home at this time. I suspect he’s acting out for two reasons, 1) He has been cooped up in the house for too long and needs to play, 2) He’s working on a dominance ploy with my little wife.
Note, he doesn’t need to go potty; she takes him out to do that. But, he’s separated from the four other dogs and he likes to play and wrestle a lot. Unfortunately, he’s not 100% with the chickens yet, so he can’t be left outside until sundown when the chickens go night, night. So, I think he’s trying to play with Jen but, he’s playing too hard. Today he nipped he on the arm way too hard and when she yelped, he didn’t apologize. Typically he would apologize if you cried out he would say he was sorry by being submissive and licking you. Today, nothing.
It seems that he’s getting worse, which makes me think that he’s pushing the boundaries and testing to see if he can dominant my wife. Seeing that he weights as much and she’s a girl, he probable can. It’s a classic problem and happens a lot that a dog become dominant over the female human and even the male human. I don’t plan on being one of those households.
He tried this with me on Sunday. Right on time, 4 PM, he gets up and starts to bark at us. The bark was halfway between his play bark and his bark across the canyon at other dogs. I confronted him and commanded him to be quiet. He laid down disgruntled but, quiet. I then petted him for obeying. The thing is for me, he quieted down and after a little petting he was fine until dinnertime an hour later.
So, how do I help my wife gain control over the situation and for Hagrid to learn that NO means NO.
Jim