Thank you redhen. I cried once, it was when my doc came out and said the word CANCER. It sits there in the back of your mind as you wait, and wait, and wait for the truth. After that, I decided it was going to take more than breast cancer to bring me down. I had to keep on my husband because every time I turned around he was shedding tears. I told him to stop. It was just a bump in the road and if he was going to keep bringing that negative karma into my life then the outcome was going to be what he feared most. It was just as hard on him. He was my rock through this, though. I wasn't allowed to worry about anything. He answered the phone, took care of bills, getting some financial help.
I suggest to everyone I talk to now that if you don't have some kind of insurance to pay those incidentals while you are ill (house payment, utilities, etc....) you get some!! We are fighting now to keep our house because of it.