Okay, so we have this very sweet Pygmy/Alpine (we think...) momma and her 4-month old twins now, and just looking at her full udder makes me want to have a go at her milk REALLY bad! She has never been milked before (and I have never milked a goat!), and she's a bit on the shy side (she was not handled a lot by her previous owner). She'll eat treats out of my hand, and comes to me when I enter the goat yard, but she does not like to be petted otherwise. How do I go about even attempting to milk her? And before that, how do I get her to let me check out her hoofes (to my knowledge they've not been trimmed ever, and she's about 2 years old!!!). Do I try to gain her trust over the course of several weeks or even months, or do I simply manhandle her (she's not afraid of me now), and force her to get used to being touched? I was told that goats need to be "broken in", kind of like horses, but I don't want to make the mistake of breaking her trust, and her totally freaking out. We've had her and her kids for a week now.