Well... men are a dime a dozen... *hopes hubby isn't reading this.*
God doesn't make mistakes and he has offered you a precious gift. It is alot of work being a parent, but soooo worth it.
Everything happens for a reason.... if your boyfriend chooses not to be a part of your & the baby's life... there's not much you can do...
BUT.... he may come around eventually.
Wishing you lot's of luck with your baby & boyfriend.
I love this!!! Where did you find it!?
Congrats!!!!!Hello everyone holiday season and prep has me runing around like a mad woman. We are having to rent a car for christmas weekand i'm up to my eyeballs in cooking, we are making russian tea cakes, haystacks, sugar cookies, date nut bread, pumkin chessecake, pear honey, lasgna, and a red velvet cake. I love cooking but because of our limited place to store stuff we have to do it all on christmas eve and christmas day.ugh i'm tired.
Ok ya'll would be so kind i really need some advice, i recently found out I'm pregnant. I told my mom and she is supportive and willing to help me. But when i told my boyfriend he told me he didn't want it. And if i chose to keep the baby, he wouldn't have anything to do with me or the child. Well, for me its a no brainer, i have always wanted to be a mom, though admittedly when i was older, and i will not give up this baby. But i love my boyfriend and we have been together since our first year of high school. He is younger than me and only 19. I'm kinda lost, on the one hand i don't want to lose him, but on the other i want soooo bad to be a mom and he knew this. Any advice for this youngin?
My opinion may not be worth loads, but I'll voice it anyway. Your BF was just as responsible for birth control as you. If he didn't want a child, he should have been more diligent. (Yes, water under the bridge now.) That said, a man who will threaten to walk if you choose to keep this baby....giving you a very manipulative ultimatum....is one I'd let walk. Every relationship has it high points and its low points. Married or not, you've got some mental/emotional version of "for better/for worse", else you wouldn't be together. Hitting a low point like an unexpected pregnancy lets you know if your partner is one that will stand with you when times are rough, or if he's the type to run and leave you standing.Hello everyone holiday season and prep has me runing around like a mad woman. We are having to rent a car for christmas weekand i'm up to my eyeballs in cooking, we are making russian tea cakes, haystacks, sugar cookies, date nut bread, pumkin chessecake, pear honey, lasgna, and a red velvet cake. I love cooking but because of our limited place to store stuff we have to do it all on christmas eve and christmas day.ugh i'm tired.
Ok ya'll would be so kind i really need some advice, i recently found out I'm pregnant. I told my mom and she is supportive and willing to help me. But when i told my boyfriend he told me he didn't want it. And if i chose to keep the baby, he wouldn't have anything to do with me or the child. Well, for me its a no brainer, i have always wanted to be a mom, though admittedly when i was older, and i will not give up this baby. But i love my boyfriend and we have been together since our first year of high school. He is younger than me and only 19. I'm kinda lost, on the one hand i don't want to lose him, but on the other i want soooo bad to be a mom and he knew this. Any advice for this youngin?
Is this the start of chicken math?Yep, space. Feed.Why can't I have all the pretties!?!
I've decided to focus on my layers for my egg customers, and then limit to three breeds for potential showing. Those will be the English Orps, Brahmas, and Wellies. I can play with all sorts of colored eggs in my layers, as long as they lay big eggs, so that should keep me happy. I can put all the big pretties in there! But, with just a couple exceptions, I'll limit the showing birds to proper colors for showing, and try really hard not to get sucked in to all the pretty colors there. The exception is crele English Orps. Oh. My!
Even though Hubby is willing to build another chickenhouse for me, I want to wait until I've sorted out what I really want and need. Self-control. I can do this!
I am looking to buy up to 10 black copper marans hens/ pullets/ sexed chicks and One or two (preferably two) Lavender Orp roos/ cockerels here in NC. I am in Vass/ Southern Pines. I can drive a bit If needed. They will be free range pets.
ya'lls opinions mean very much to me. I hate him for giving that kind of ultimatum. I'm gonna tell him, you can either be around to watch and enjoy this miracle with me or you can leave. I love him with all my heart, but we had never discussed the kids things before, so i didn't even realise he didn't want any! My heart is sad and happy at the same time. Thank you all!!! 
