Thanks again everyone for your amazing support.
I was up until the wee hours talking with my husband (I think he forgot the time difference...east coast vs west coast...but well worth it). He has not completely relented, but seems to be softening again. I think everyone's right and it's just sticker shock!!
What cracks me up is HE is the one that is wanting an elaborate coop. All I asked was for it to look like a barn (if we could and if not painted like one). I told him about the Shipping Crates and pallets that were suggested as well as the old shed, etc... His response...that wood isn't going to last. Honestly?
I think the problem is, he's a perfectionist, so he wants the best materials so it can look "perfect." I did explain that we should start small, that way we can decide what we like/don't like and then grow as our flock grows
I was careful to avoid discussions of chicken math!!
Another problem...neither of us has a truck and I think he's worried about HOW to get the materials, but we do know a few people who have offered to lend us theirs to use...one lady offered us her son's truck any time we wanted to because he's away serving our country (a special thanks to our service men/women!!
) and doesn't want the truck to sit idle.
Why is it he's being so difficult??
It must be because I have not converted him to the "chicken side" yet. Hmm...BHep, you're an enabler, why don't you talk to him.
just kidding. I do think he's warming up to the idea because he was playing around with googlesketch last night after the meetings and designed a few different coops for me to look at (don't worry, once I get the email I will be sure to share it will everyone
). That much work doesn't fit someone who has completely thrown out the idea!!
Where is a good place to find pallets? Can you just go to a company and ask them for some? How did you all get yours?
Thanks again everyone.
I'm suppose to have an answer (well tentative) today on whether or not he plans to "allow" me to have them.
I'm going to continue to see just how much we can get for free or discount to "aide" in that decision.
You enablers have taught me well.
hehe
edited to correct horrible grammar...lack of sleep...that's my excuse.