Rancher, I feel qualified to answer here so forgive me if you don't. Be sure that getting rid of your hobby is what you really want to do. Caregivers are lost in the shuffle. The person with the illness is usually getting the very best care and support while we sit by and wonder what more we can do for them. Everyone In our situation stood up and said they would do whatever they could but when they were really needed, they were unavailable. Not 1 of my mothers friends stopped by the hospital to visit for the 2 mo she was in there. My point, you are the one that will need a little alone time, or someone to talk to, 1 hr to do something that you enjoy. I hated getting up an extra hour early in the cold to care for my chickens before going to sit with my mother all day but now I'm glad I did. Plus, chickens are good listeners. You have to do what you feel is best for you, today I'm sending you a huge hug. Prayers, sue
I'm just wondering whether I should scale things back some and who to cut. That mean rooster has to go, cuz I have to be extra careful with him around. DW has a scratch on her leg from his father who has never attacked me and I worry he will attack someone else if I need someone to care for that coop.
DW of course would not tell me to do so. She says "they're you chickens you do what you want with them" .

I know it's all in Gods hands and I know he knows what's going on. I'm drawing on all that I've been taught at church for nearly 40 years to get us through this.