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But, I actually WANT the honest truth when I ask for it, and ppl kiss my butt and tell me what they THINK I want to hear... but really what I want to hear is the bad stuff so I know what to fix!
Here! Here! That's what is lacking in society today - truth and spines. Seriously, put your "big girl panties on and deal"! Too much of this "I'm ok, you're ok" garbage. Trophy for showing up? what??? Someone's got to win and someone's got to lose. Grow up.
I said very loudly at my 6yo's last sporting event that I only think the kids who win should get a trophy, dont encourage the underacheivers to keep sucking... the parents werent impressed. They can kiss it, my kids will be a valuable and contributing membe of society when he grows up, theirs will feel entitled and live on welfare.
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not knocking anyone who gets welfare, I had to have it myself when I left the ex to help get back on my feet, but I do knock those who abuse the system and try to live on it forever out of laziness.