Office Work.......

[ibpboo]

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be strong

 

[maple]

ok..back home.

So I'm on the phone with my mom who says she's been so sick she's scared she dangerously dehydrated... I tell her that I will pick her up some things at the grocery store and come help her. The phone rings and it's the mediator who wants to know since Wayne is still in town (ahem...what happened to Milwaukee??? I thought so. liar) if we could to mediation right now? I tell her no. I've got to go take care of my sick mother, there's no one to watch my children on such short notice and we have a tentative schedule for tues. So she says it'd be better if we could do this while he's here and in person...yada yada yada... Well, I'm upset. I was up till midnight with my oldest, now I got to take care of my mom, I got to do homework with my oldest to get her caught up cuz she was sick before break and missed some school... If we were to do this while x was still in town than it should have been scheduled as so. You can't call me an hour ahead of time of meeting when it takes half an hour to get to the office. Anyway...I talked to a friend after the phone call because I was just so mad. My mom needed me. I'm not mentally prepared. I just got my girls back and learned of some things...lies... My lawyer told me not to go there and be emotional because it would look like I'm weak. So guess what? I'm going on our scheduled day so I can process all of this bull and no, I'm not agreeing to his wants. He wants to see the kids then come back to town...he gets 30 days paid vacation days with the army...he can come home and visit his family and see his girls then.

I mean, even the mediator was telling him to think about the girls and that he hadn't seen them in 2 years and forming a bond with them was going to take time. Zoe said she felt sick to her stomach and was home sick when she was gone. Ava ended up throwing up one of the days and screaming and kicking for several hours the first night. He's not thinking about them...he's always been selfish and just thinks of himself. I'm going to do what's right for my children, so God help me.

ok...that was my grrr from earlier. Gotta go check help with more homework.

bye and thanks ladies for havin a listening ear.

hugs,
gretch

 

[NellaBean]

Sorry G

Men are stoopid. Except Dacs. Sorry D.

I have to admit, i had to start taking the crazy pills again tonight. OMG, I couldn't take the hate and rage and anger any more. And every time I moved my head I would get serious vertigo and weird feelings.

apparently I must remain medicated FOREVER. And fat, since I gained 40lbs after I started taking these pills.

Sigh.

 

[ibpboo]

I don't have an excuse for my weight gain, quick, think of one for me!!

Its just cuz I love chocolate, and not riding my pony enough lately.

 

[Orchid]

Nells, did you try going off them gradually, or cold turkey?

maple, I'm sorry your ex is such a douche.

 

[NellaBean]

Cold Turkey. I'm on the lowest dose! My doctor had even said I could stop taking them if I wanted to.............APPARENTLY NOT. if the elliptical doesn't cause weight loss, I may go in and see if I can switch to something else.

 

[Orchid]

Try going to a half a pill a day, then a half pill every other day, then one every two days, before you actually quit. That's what my sister had to do, otherwise she pretty much felt like she was going to die. Or kill someone.

Just a thought.

 

[dacjohns]

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I would love to go to a U2 concert!!!

Nashville.

 

[dacjohns]

g,

Do you feel better now that you got all that off your chest?

daccers

 

[dacjohns]

Be strong g.