You are totally not being unfair. This dog has got to be retained somehow. Is there a leash law where you are? She is responsible to keep this dog off your property. My black lab takes care of any "strays" that wonder onto our 10 acres. I'm so sorry that your time, energy, money, patience has all been tested by this dog. I love dogs, dogs that don't kill my livestock. You probably need to ask her to rehome the dog, if the dog gets on your property again you have to defend your livestock the hard way. I have to give this woman credit for being a "good" neighbor and paying you your losses. This is a tough one.
