So, I received an email today from my college alum office forwarding an email they received from one of my old flames (it was serious and passionate) looking for me after 20+ years. They sent his message and his email contacts. I have often wondered how this man is doing and am flattered he is looking for me. I chose my husband over this flame a long time ago, and do not regret it for a minute! The flame and I parted on friendly terms, he came to my wedding, etc. He got married later and moved away... So, what would you do? Contact him and have a chat, or ignore him? Advice ladies...and men. I have no clue what he is like now, but I will give this background: He was a really nice guy, a true gentleman, lots of fun. He was extraordinarily good looking (a model) and an architect. We dated for a year, but I ultimately broke it off to develop a relationship with the man who became my husband. Hubby isn't really the jealous type, but he might feel a tiny bit jealous of this guy.