There is a good chance that your white hens ( if they are solid white) are actually recessive white, a completely different type of white
Whereas dominant white basically turns the black part of the feather white, largely leaving the gold parts alone, and only requires one copy to show itself.
Recessive white successfully switches off all color and requires two copies to show itself. A one copy recessive white bird will look it's natural (non white0 color pattern A possible exception to this might be a naturally black bird with dominant white that may also carry a single copy of recessive white. I believe a few breeds, or at least some lines of some breeds may carry both dominant and recessive white.
As to when to choose which laced birds are kept as potential breeders. When working with these projects, during the developmental phases, you will often have to deal with breeder birds that will not posses all the proper two copy sets of the required genes for whatever particular feather pattern you are striving for. As a result you will produce many, many, off marked chicks until you get the genetics dialed in better. Depending how many generations you are into a project, and to a large degree how good you are at it, ideally each successive generation brings you closer to your goal. But it is always dependent somewhat on the luck of the draw, each generation is a role of the dice that the proper combination of genes come together to get you closer to your goal. This is why hatching as many chicks as you can handle helps your odds of getting the very few keepers that will advance your program.
Early on, when they all look nothing like the bird you have in you head, and continuing during the entire process, place your major emphasis on proper Brahma type (build/size and temperament). It is very easy to become enamored with a bird that maybe has a better pattern, overlooking it's other major short comings . While you mat get the pattern down quicker using these birds, people often end up with just another pretty bird that has no more Brahma type than your average hatchery Wyandotte, or Rock. It is my personal feeling that you are much better off in the long run picking the superior typed bird over a possibly better marked bird even though it may delay your final reaching your goal a few years, as you are still way ahead of blowing up the project later bringing in outside blood to fix poor type.
It has been my experience that poor lacing will show itself early, and will not improve with maturation. The only benefit of waiting would be the possibility of a superior typed bird developing among the less than ideal laced birds.