Thanks for all the good thoughts. I am going back to Ohio tomorrow for a short time. 24/7 caregiving for this long with no help or breaks has me burned out. Her caregiver started yesterday so I have had a chance to watch her with Mom and feel like it will work out. Going home to see my critters and get my early garden plants and seeds in then will return to CA. My DH needs some attention too
. She has good days and bad days. I plan on coming back in 10 days if she is doing well or sooner if necessary.