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If I understood correctly, the OP wants to get a new silkie. She/he already has 10 other chickens. Mom has said that to get a new bird OP either has to make the trade of her current birds (maybe mom is the one providing most of the care? maybe they simply take too much time that OP should be devoting to studying? maybe ...) or show significant improvement in grades (language arts in specific). I don't see a punishment being issues--I see a parent setting behavior expectations for her child, with the possibility of a reward or a compromise.
 
I personally think its horrible specially requesting 100% and threatening taking away your animals personally I would rather see my son being responsible getting fresh air and caring for animals then doing a lot of things that other kids do
 
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If I understood correctly, the OP wants to get a new silkie. She/he already has 10 other chickens. Mom has said that to get a new bird OP either has to make the trade of her current birds (maybe mom is the one providing most of the care? maybe they simply take too much time that OP should be devoting to studying? maybe ...) or show significant improvement in grades (language arts in specific). I don't see a punishment being issues--I see a parent setting behavior expectations for her child, with the possibility of a reward or a compromise.

I agree. And the OP says 10 of the other chickens as a trade for 1 silkie- nowhere does it say ALL of the other chickens.
Mom does know best, go ace that test! Then you get to keep the 10 and get the silkie!
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See about a tutor or go talk to the teacher and tell them your plight . . .maybe they will help you out. You might surprise yourself too when really applying yourself, what grade you really CAN make!!!
 
I think your mom suspects you really COULD ace the Language Arts Test, and to get silkies, which you want very much, you would work VERY hard toward studying and preparing for the test. She also knows you want to keep your other chickens AND get silkies -- so she's using MOM psychology on you.

Psssttt.... Langauge arts -- WRITE an explanation for your teacher of what your mom's reward plan is, and ask her for help preparing for the quiz. Most teachers really WANT to help students learn, but they save their best efforts for the students that show them/let them know that they really want to. And, you can post your "written explanation/request" for the teacher here, and we'll all help you edit it and check the spelling, etc., etc....before you turn it in. And, if your teacher is REALLY cool, she'll count your written piece in place of your next quiz grade!!!!

ETA: Oh, yeah, that's a SILKIE hen on my head in the avatar -- her name is Charlemagne, and her mate is Elmo!
 
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i got a B on the test soo im happy im going to try to compromise cause my dad wants it
 
Maybe 2 A's in lieu of 1 100% score? As a parent I'd totally go for that kind of deal. Even 90% is an A.

Bribery is a great parenting tool/torture! ( Vlah ha ha ha!).
 

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