A little late in the advice column but I will throw mine in the basket.
My sister just came to the state today to visit. She and her daughters were a little ...wierded out by the fact that not only do I have 2 house chickens but I have several other birds with full flight privileges. My niece said I was "weird". You know what I did?? Grinned and said "Perhaps". And then noted that one of my chicks had a "flaming homemade diaper" and giggled.
I have had some people tell me " I don't care what you say, they stink". To that..I grin and say "come on over to my house and see if you smell anything"
Some people have dogs, other people have cats, rats, birds, hell...snakes and lizards. Why not chickens I say? Just like a dog or a cat..if you don't take care of them the way they are supposed to then they will smell. That is the same thing with my chickens. Personally I think my chickens smell less than having a cat!
I love my family to death but the fact is, if they have a problem with my pets that badly then they don't need to come into my home. This is MY home. I pay the bills and I am not going to let someone, not even my mother, dictate what I have in my home. I love my friends to death but the fact is, I am who I am which is a person that loves unorthodox pets. I at one point had an opossum that lived in my home as a pet. Cleanest animal I have ever taken care of. Did I get mumbles and ewwws? You bet I did! But any "friend" of mine will love me for me and that includes all my weird animal interests. It is one of my biggest passions in life and I am not hurting anyone with it. If anything I am educating my daughter on different types of animals as well as other people that show interest in it and ask questions.
If someone wants to ask me questions about how it works out then I will gladly tell them everything from the pros and cons of keeping a chicken in doors. But if someone frowns upon it they have 2 options. 1. Ignore the situation and don't talk negatively about my animals (seriously there are a million other things people can talk about besides pets lol) or 2. If it is that big of a deal that they can't respect my lifestyle (and yes, I do think owning pets is such a serious thing to justify calling it a lifestyle) then they don't need to be involved in the situation.
Perhaps that is a little harsh but that is just how I see it. Explain your situation, tell them that having an indoor chicken brings you a lot of joy and leave it at that. It is up to the other person to be mature about the situation or not.
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