I really, seriously believe that the manual was created because the last dishwasher was sensitive about the others' mouths. My boss has heard me swear and he says nothing. We have already spoken about a wide array of topics, and I had been forthright with them that if I ever say anything that is not okay, to please tell me. During my interview I had said flat-out that at Walmart, most jokes are considered sexual harassment, and I do not see them that way if they are meant to be in jest. You can tell when jokes are made to be funny, and when they are meant to be inappropriate. He had warned me of how the others talk, and had asked me numerous times already if I was okay with my coworkers. Like, duh! I feel like I am merely washing dishes in a kitchen full of my family members. And then I proceeded to pick on my new work buddy in a manner that would have, at Walmart, gotten me written up for harassment. Just to prove that I am not only okay with their jokes, but that I have a thick enough skin to take part. He seemed happy that he did not have a kitchen full of awkwardness and stress. And after work we all sit around making even worse jokes while having a beer.
I may bring up the manual again to boss man after the holidays and ask him about it. Try to see if others could get some wiggle room so that they can just enjoy being in the kitchen for 12+ hours a day. It is so much easier to enjoy your work if you do not have to worry about your speech.