They came and got her and now I feel terrible, if I had any doubts that she wanted to be with them before NOW I know. She was wearing a collar this time (and a bandana, I had one on her at my house and I guess they liked it), but still no tags. I can't get tags made here, I'd have to order some or go about an hour away.
They seem like nice people, and I think to some degree they do like her, I just don't think they are meeting her needs.
When they came to get her she greeted them, she still wasn't the overly enthusiastic that you'd expect (really she greeted them like she greets everyone, she's pretty friendly). She likes my dad, he even considered taking her himself, when the owner showed, after the greeting they tried to call her and started walking toward their vehicle and turned and tried to follow my Dad, so the owner got ahold of her collar and she just sat down and wouldn't budge! Here's the part that made me feel terrible, they asked for my help, so I just called her over and walked to the vehicle w/ her following right along, then I had to help push her into the back seat. I didn't have anywhere near that much trouble getting her in our vehicle, she really didn't want to go, now I worry that she won't want to see me again.
I also found out that they did find her yesterday after coming by our house, so this was her leaving again! Good news though they are planning to have her spayed, they hope that will help keep her home. I don't want to discourage them from spaying her, I really think they should! But I also don't really think that's the problem.
I don't know if she's trying to come to my house or just wants to leave hers. I hope she'll come to me everytime, atleast at my house she isn't trying to leave and she's safe.