Please! I hate my fmily!

[DUCKGIRL89]

I would cry all the time if I were you. And I would more that likely punch my brother in the face if I caught him doing that! Nobody will ever get away hurting or teasing my ducks with out some bruses! Im not kiding, I would punch him! And if he didnt know I would do that he would spray them with hose. The only reason I would regret punching him, is 1 my hand would hurt. 2 I would be in alot of trouble. But hey my ducks are so worth it! Like my signiture says I would do anything for my ducks! Good luck though.

 

[DUCKGIRL89]

Wait my sigy dont say that. Oops well still hehehe.

 

[Sonoran Silkies]

Duck Lover, I am guessing htat you were really upset when you spoke to your parents, and that caused them to react as they did. You need to speak with them calmly, when you can not be upset, and tell them your concerns. It might even be easier to write them a letter. If you write the letter, let it sit for a day or even two after you write it, then re-read and edit if it is too emotional and not calm enough. Before eiter talking or writing, get a paper and write down the points you want to convey.

Brother is hurting ducks by spraying them in the face.

These are your ducks.

This is mean, and will cause them to distrust people.

You've worked hard to befriend them, and they trust you.

You feed and care for them (list frequency, and amount of time).

etc. (my list is probably not exactly how you would word your concerns, but do break it down into those teeny tiny concerns.)


I'm not sure if this is the place to mention that you feel like you're treated less fairly than your brother.

 

[redhen]

I wouldnt allow anyone to scare and abuse my animals... that gun would get accidently broken.
Sorry, NOT good advice..but if your parents wont even step in...

 

[redhen]

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Yeah.. try THIS first... I'll just get ya in trouble..

 

[Elite Silkies]

Listen to Sonoran because I would be like Red and just get you into more trouble. I just can't overlook animal abuse, there is no reason to allow it. One thing that sticks in my mind is that you said he likes torturing animals, and I just do not feel this is normal.

 

[redhen]

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X2!

 

[DuckLover2399]

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X2!

He does tortures my dog by running up when she is sleeping and scaring her. That is one of the Dailey things he does. Quite minor but it scares her so bad.

 

[Elite Silkies]

Honey, if it scares her that bad, then I wouldn't consider it to be a minor issue, but is much better than physically abusing her. This type of abuse could lead to a more severe case of animal abuse. Bless your heart. Your poor sweet dog could eventually become aggressive.

 

[yinepu]

I had a brother like that.. my parents wouldn't do anything (they considered him to be the little genius of the family).. so one day I cornered him and threatened him within an inch of his life... worked for me.. but he assumed I was insane enough to carry out my threats..
Not saying your case would work out the same.. and I am not suggesting that you try it.. however I just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone with dealing with this sort of situation...

you may be better off having another (calmer) chat with your parents and voicing your concerns as the others have suggested.. and if that doesn't work then perhaps the gun could have an accident.. if matters escalate beyond that do you have an aunt or uncle who would step in on your (and your animal's) behalf?