I would still provide the grit free choice (in a separate dish) birds don't necessarily have to consume grit everyday - they will pick up a few pieces and those pieces lodge in the gizzard to help grind up foods. Once the pieces "wear down" then they are passed on through the intestines and out.Right, that's what I meant -a softener I did some research on that, NO Laxatives! She pretty much just picks around the grit in her food, she doesn't like having any when I put it to the side... guessing she was not eating little rocks outside like the rest of them. I have massaged it quite a bit and it's pretty hard and doesn't really move much, but I'm going to keep trying to massage it everyday. I do leave food out for her all the time becuase shes never been one to eat a lot of food like my other piggies! I just want to make sure she has it when shes hungry. The crop (soft stuff above her hard walnut) does empty every night like normal, so I know shes not all blocked up and poops just fine, no weird colors or anything- just a little green from her two blueberries.
Keep us posted on how she's doing.