Pops is in bad shape. Can't walk, bad chest cold going into pneumonia we think. No insurance (he hadn't paid premiums) so they tried to send him home from the ICU! Sheesh. DH's other brothers and sister are dealing with it right now so DH can stay here with us.
Then yesterday we get a call from ex-sis-in-law. Ex M-I-L had a heart attack Monday night! They did stents and think she will be okay. She may go home this weekend.
DD2 is coping with all this as best she can. She really wants keepsakes, so we're planning a quilt from her fathers shirts and ties. She gave him most of the ties and the crafters thread had some great ideas for it. She's sent cards to Pops and her Nan telling them to hang in there!!
DD1 is avoiding thinking about any of it.
We're having a skating party for her tonight to make up for her missing her 16th birthday. Sweet girl didn't want to call it a birthday party, since her friends families are having hard times and she didn't want anyone thinking they had to bring a gift.
But it's warmed my heart to hear excitement in her voice and see a sparkle in her eyes as this has all come together. We'll drive 10 teens to the rink ourselves and at least 5 more will meet us there. I'm praying everything goes smoothly and this sweet girl of mine has a blast tonight!!
In the meantime, DH and I look at each other every so often, hug, and mutter, "Just keep swmming." Because if we think too much about it all we feel overwhelmed. We can't be in IL, NC and TN all at the same time. So we focus on here and plug along as best we can.
I really appreciate all your prayers and support. Brings tears to my eyes when I think about it.! Thank you all sooooo much!