I understand a few things from being a donor to a shelter for battered women. I don't know it's location other than somewhere near here. They protect the ladies at all cost. It's so hard to understand how men can so abuse women that they should be protecting.There are things I can't share, but I will say that the control this man has over her is unreal. I'm not allowed to contact her at all. She would never see any mail I sent to her. All I've been able to do over the last 5 years is pray. It's hard for me to understand so I realize that it's hard for others to understand....