prayers for maple's angiogram Mon.

[maple]

copied from another thread just so people here can get a little insight to my plight:

"Lawyers can only do so much. At one point instead of alimony my lawyer said to his.....sign over the house and walk away. Which would make sense...he owes me and my family more than the equity he'd get but now X has changed his tune and said he doesn't recall the conversation he had with my mom, me and mortgage guy that if anything would happen between the 2 of us he would sign it over and walk away...that he could never take my childhood home from me or try to get money from it. I wanted alimony AND him to sign over the house.... who's he think he is? He marries me, gets me to pay off ALL his debt with what I got from when my dad died and then my mom pays some more and more and more over the years with the knowledge that he's supposed to pay her back but he never did or plans on it and since we never got it in writing.... it's all heresay I guess and he can say it was a gift. so now he wants the equity in the house...so i'd have to pay him money.

I mean, where's the justice?

and I had a heart attack and complications...can't work just yet...bills are piling up....gas was turned off...electric is threatening to be turned off...don't know how me and my girls are gonna make it...and need God's Grace right now like you wouldn't believe.

I have always wanted to run a home daycare. I'm in the midst of starting one. I go for CPR training on sat. I have the paperwork on getting licensed started...it's just a matter of time. I know with that and child support I could manage but it's getting there, the in between time, the finishing cardiac rehab and getting my liscense....it all takes time.... I'm scared."


I feel like a fool. He swooped me off my feet, broke me, and now is trying to take me for all I am.

 

[redhen]

Have Debi make him some of her special recipe Oleander tea....

 

[ibpboo]

Oh Maple,

 

[maple]

what's with the tea?


I know boo.

My heart has not known such betrayal and to top it off the whip cream and cherry on top.... my mom and sisters are not here for me either.


I am missing my dad right now because I know if he were still here, there's no way me and my girls would be worrying about the roof over our heads or warm water....

 

[dacjohns]

I haven't been on in a couple of days. I'm sure you could still use a hug.

 

[maple]

you know it big guy or should we say my substitute daddeo. hugs ya back and blubbers like a baby.

My heart hurts so bad. I know people can be callous and greedy and evil and all those other adjectives but when it's so blantantly wrong in every sense of the word and when it involves a man's own children and there is no regards to them in the slightest..... it renders me to a place I just can't wrap my brain around.... how could he be so cruel and unfair? Doesn't he care about his children's well being? I just don't get it.

...and I don't feel my lawyer is taking any of this seriously and putting up the good fight. He's going through the checks and balances on the paper and disregarding the people he's representing.....I'm really frustrated and feel so let down by so many around me that should be rallying around me in support but they are not. I'm dumb founded. If I were to give it much thought??? I don't know how I'd carry on....

...but by the Grace of My Lord and pushing all people that are not supportive and uplifting away.....

 

[redhen]

Gretch..
Can you get any money refunded from the lawyer and get a new lawyer?
Tell him VERY clearly that you have concerns about his representing you... that you dont feel like hes taking this case very seriously....
So sorry all this crud is still going on for you...

 

[ibpboo]

I've been thinking and praying for you all day.

 

[ibpboo]

I have a baby chickie in my bathrobe pocket.
In our area there are lots of chickens that just run around. Near my son's house, where I used to have to lay on the floor to do high speed, there are chickens. Well, one of those chickens has a nest in the bush, yes in it, not under it. So as the chicks hatched they were falling out, and mama was not caring. I heard loud loud peeping. DH saw one come out from under the bush. Then I found two more. I brought them home but two of them did not make it, they were already so cold, and never started eating. But this one was eating and drinking right away and seems to be fine, but now its going to be lonely, so its in my pocket right now.
I wonder if any more hatched and if they are ok. I guess that is why she wasn't getting off the nest to save the chickies that fell, cuz she was still trying to hatch more. Maybe today I will go check.
Silly chicken, birds make nests in trees and bushes, not chickens.

 

[AHappychick]

Did not read all the posts but congrats on getting ready to open a daycare. My suggestion would be do all snacks and food 100% organically Cosco actually has quiet a selection (for buying in bulk) then you can advertise that you are an all organic day care (people like me would jump on that) also you can make sure not to use pesticides or fertilizer on youyr property or where they play. I would also get a nebulizer (as so many kids have breathing problems) If you advertised that not only were you great at watching kids but are a safer healthier enviroment than others you could corner the market on us organic health nuts