Dang lady I am so sorry. I have found that with the help of my banks, the bank must speak to DH or I before thy will authorize a charge of over $499.00 and they send me an email alert for anything over $249.00.
We have a separate account for all online purchases as well and it has a limited amount of funds in it that I replenish monthly or as needed.
It also helps to change your Pin number every 30 - 60 days. I change ours about every 45 days. Whenever it is changed, I just simple write the new number on the calendar/dry erase board in the kitchen with our code phrase. That is ubber helpful for you both to have a code phrase that tells the other something has been changed. Something that no one would notice as meaning anything....like Boat Payment due 0007 or whatever the new pin is.
You may want to sign up with credit report.com as well for alerts. You can see what is on your credit report and any changes, right down to your address change is sent to you. We just went throguh all of this because DH had a defaulted credit card of over $5,000 balance show on his and a Foreclosure in Michigan. Neither were his debts. It took us 4 years to get them cleared off his credit report. Because we had no idea they were on there until we ran our credit reports one day and they accounts had been on there for over a year without us knowing it. What a pain.
Speckledhen and I were discussing this issue recently and both they and we, have services on our cards cancelled. For example, the daily limit on the only card of ours that pulls cash is $100.00, the rest can be used for credit purposes/POS and they have the $350 and $500 restrictions on them but you cannot withdraw cash usign them.
It may seem like a nuisance but taking all the extra precautions with changing PIN numbers limiting transaction and so forth, really pay off in the long run.
We have a separate account for all online purchases as well and it has a limited amount of funds in it that I replenish monthly or as needed.
It also helps to change your Pin number every 30 - 60 days. I change ours about every 45 days. Whenever it is changed, I just simple write the new number on the calendar/dry erase board in the kitchen with our code phrase. That is ubber helpful for you both to have a code phrase that tells the other something has been changed. Something that no one would notice as meaning anything....like Boat Payment due 0007 or whatever the new pin is.
You may want to sign up with credit report.com as well for alerts. You can see what is on your credit report and any changes, right down to your address change is sent to you. We just went throguh all of this because DH had a defaulted credit card of over $5,000 balance show on his and a Foreclosure in Michigan. Neither were his debts. It took us 4 years to get them cleared off his credit report. Because we had no idea they were on there until we ran our credit reports one day and they accounts had been on there for over a year without us knowing it. What a pain.
Speckledhen and I were discussing this issue recently and both they and we, have services on our cards cancelled. For example, the daily limit on the only card of ours that pulls cash is $100.00, the rest can be used for credit purposes/POS and they have the $350 and $500 restrictions on them but you cannot withdraw cash usign them.
It may seem like a nuisance but taking all the extra precautions with changing PIN numbers limiting transaction and so forth, really pay off in the long run.
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