Heck, I didn’t even have a phone till I was almost 17. You’re his mom, it’s up to you how you parent him. Not really anyone else’s business.I always tell my son, "There are no secrets in this house, unless it's a Christmas or birthday present". I go through his phone and tablet on the regular. The computer is in the livingroom. He is not allowed to be in his room, on any electronic device. It is my job, as a mom, to protect him. I know you get it but I fully expect these young kids to be annoyed for my son