I don't ignore my roosters, each roo has a different personality
I had 3 that were mean but respected me for the most part, I had to spray water bc they would fight between themselves really badly, I culled them bc they abused China their sister that turned roo (probably bc of them) and they tried to kill my buff boy Roo when he was 3 months
Now Roo never wants to be touched but he eats from my hand and has never ever challenged me he is the gentlest and emotional
My newest boy is marshmellow, an EE 4 months and he is outgoing, unafraid, and from really little was the first to come to me. He allows us to hold him, he will sit in my lap and close his eyes and isn't mean
Yet he's not a baby, he mates and gives his girls first turn at the treats like a good boy
China is a buff orps who thinks she's a roo, she is grumpy but never mean to me and will let me hold her once in a day it after she fought 2 Rottweilers intruders she ran to me when I scared them away and stayed trembling for 2 minutes in my arms and then walked away all proud so....
I think every rooster is different, they don't need to be abused to control them if they are out of control they always will be imo and imo handling them doesn't make them aggressive to you
Respect and fear are 2 different things