Really, super poor people.

[oswegoscott]

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Me too. Boehner and McConnell just got them a tax break so they should be OK.

No reason to bring this in to the conversation at all. It has no bearing on the OP's post or situation. Some would see it as trolling which is not welcome at BYC.

Sure there's a reason. TOO many folks have grown accustomed to being helped. Many even EXPECT it !

 

[equine623]

oswegoscott - its people like you I teach my daughter not to be like.

To the OP - follow your heart. Life is short, money is just paper and people rarely regret things they do - usually you regret things you don't do.

 

[PaulaJoAnne]

oswegoscott
Sure there's a reason. TOO many folks have grown accustomed to being helped. Many even EXPECT it !

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It really pays to stop and assess the situation, regardless of what they may be. If you know or see anyone in need, take a few minutes, and stop making quick judgement calls.
You may learn something along the way.

I really hope you do not need help someday.​

 

[Cloverleaf Farm]

Link to a heartwarming story that I though this group would appreciate...

https://www.backyardchickens.com/forum/viewtopic.php?pid=5294028#p5294028


oswegoscott - I hope that whatever heartache or hardships you are dealing with in your own life are quickly resolved.

 

[jennh]

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"oswegoscott - I hope that whatever heartache or hardships you are dealing with in your own life are quickly resolved."
My sentiments exactly. I pointed this out in an earlier post. How could you turn this thread into a political discussion?

Jen

 

[redhen]

Its a sick shame when someone makes a post about wanting to help kids and it turns into a fight....
Really..REALLY sick shame.
I'd hate to be so bitter inside.

 

[FarmerDenise]

I think it is wonderfull that you are going to do a little something for the family. This is the time of year we are supposed to show GOODWILL to men!! and their children. People have their own way of doing things. No need to judge. I am sure the kids will appreciate the gesture and maybe even the parents too. You might be putting a good seed out there, letting them know, that strangers do care!

 

[Cindiloohoo]

OP

Thanks for posting about the family in need. Some folks who have posted...need to get a grip. It's a few bucks. Of all the times I have given to folks, I can think of none that I truly regret, even the ones who did not use it wisely or weren't exactly grateful. I was grateful for the opportunity to serve a fellow human, and have been greatly rewarded time and again. Sometimes, like when I read a post like this, I remember a homeless mother with a 14 year old boy that I gave my rent money to so that they would have a place to stay for a month, and I remember specifically the tears of joy streaming down that moms face, the quiet thankfulness because she was left speechless, the hug that I never thought I'd live through from that mother who knew her boy would be okay and that she could settle in and look for work...which she did, and I helped. I worked overtime for a month to make up the difference to get that money back, and that was the best time I have EVER had at work. Every time I think of that situation, I am rewarded with warm memories of time spent over dinner with that lady and boy I nicknamed "biscuit." He came to my door every morning for a homemade biscuit and gravy, and I always had it waiting for him. Such beautiful people they were. Yes...I am greatly rewarded. Never regret helping others. I feel sorry for you folks who feel it necessary to overanalyze peoples need or percieved lack of need. You guys are missing out on the best hugs, warmest smiles, truest friendships, and the best laughs over dinner ever to exist on the face of this planet!! Thank you VERY much OP, for the reminder of two of the greatest folks I have ever had the pleasure of helping. Never cease to look for the GOOD in people, it's there.

 

[SallyF]

Thanks to those who have expressed support for the OP's impulse to help. You restore my faith in the basic goodness of man. To all the Grinches, I love you, too, and would probably help you if you were in need.

 

[chickensducks&agoose]

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Love it. In fact, for anyone who's feeling a bit grinchy these days, dig out your old VHS of that fine old animated movie, and settle down with a cup of tea and a blanket. Fahoo Fores, Dahoo, Dores.