My DD is three as well as two of my dck's, they are DYING to hold the chicks that started hatching yesterday morning! I've told them no one can be held until everyone is done being born, so that will give some of the babies some time to get used to being alive. I'm more worried about the prospect of my dcb holding them than my dcg and my dd, sometimes he is destructive just for the heck of it... PUSHED the thermometer into the bator the day I set the eggs and broke 4! They will def be sitting down and supervised when handling the babies, but they WILL get to handle them as this is the whole reason we hatched, for the kids to have the experience. OH, and thanks for the lap pad tip!