Alright, so you guys think 'well, he doesnt know what love is' well before you make that assumption PLEASE hear me out because what I thought I had was love, but it came to be it wasnt really even that at all. I had dated a girl for 8 months, and she was really controlling and whatnot, always started fights with me. Now I had my flaws no doubt, but hers far outnumbered mine, and unlike her I actually changed alot of mine, minus the occasional cigarette. Now then.. I finally got tired of her controling and untrustinng self because I gave her no reason to be that way, thus I split up with her. Yeah it was hard, but she keeps threatening to kill herself and I dont want to stop talking to her all together just out of the fact that I care about her still, but i cant be with her. dont have any desire to be in that type of a relationship she wont change, and gets mad when i call her out on it but, do gurls threaten suicide alot to try and get back with a guy, or what.. Guys, i seriously need advice, and prayers, its a hard situation.. what should I do? Do not post overly personal information like your phone number, address, age (especially if you are a minor) or any other personal info you don't want the whole world to see.