Reliving the KIDS issue

[Wifezilla]

Our goal is to make her successful.

Well there is your problem right there. YOU can't make her succeed. She has to choose to do it.​

 

[debilorrah]

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Yes the baby is here with us. His mother has yet to have a single holiday or birthday with her own kid. And he is not just the ex's kid - he is Sara's half brother. And he is precious child!!!

 

[Britney]

Way to go Debi, that is a wonder way to think. I wish that more people could think that way. gosh I am in tears today. My daughter just left her spring break is over and back to school she goes. I sure hope that this gets easier for me. I feel so sad but so happy that she is responsible. However I didn't go into her room yet to see if she made her bed before she left. On the other hand she told me that she dropped the tube of tooth paste in the toilet and it was to gross for her to put her hand in it to get it out. I told her that it was o.k that I will get it. LOL I just can't bring myself to go into her room just yet. I am so sad right now. After she left for the xmas break I laid in her bed for few hours missing her so much. Stay strong Debi, and if you do decide to tell Sarah that she has to move on, try to be strong and make it as pleasant as possible. I wouldn't wait for the situation to get to bed and have her leave on real bad terms. But I am not in your situation only you and your husband really know what is going on. Good luck to you. Now I am going to finish crying until I can't cry anymore.