I totally understand how you feel. My chickens always came to me and sat on my lap, they would let me powder them down with D.E., check for injuries etc. But since we got a Rooster (Cogburn) my girls became his. I saw the change within a week or so. We got him to protect our chickens, and that is exactly what he is doing. Its now his job, not mine. When I bring out kitchen scraps, (cucumbers, bread, etc.) he calls the girls over and will let them eat. He will not eat of anything, until they are finished. I now find it hard to even catch one of my girls to check them out. They are like therapy for me. I am a full time care giver for my mom 91 yrs. old. I've taken care of mom for 6 years now. Its hard. So I get my husband to watch mom while I go for a little therapy and watch my chickens and Cogburn. I do miss them jumping on me. But now its them and Cogburn. He has never charged at me but he sure does make a certain noise whenever I get close to his girls.
A hunt dog was running in my yard, Cogburn flew up over the 5' fence to attack the dog, only to protect his girls, he fought almost to his death. But he was doing his job. We had to nurse him back to health. Totally recovered now & clipped his wing too. Now I enjoy watching him care for the girls. He calls them over when he finds a worm, he calls them to run into the coop when there is a hawk, or danger of anything. Hope you too can learn to enjoy your rooster who has taken over your job.