Sadly, when I'm down, it's resented-->venting...

[chickabator]

Last dec. I was put in the hospital with what they thought was a severe kidney infection to find out I had a huge stone that had my kidney 100% blocked off. I was transfered to another hospital where I had to have emergancy surgery. I got to go home later that evening. Any way while I was in the hospital all I heard was your gonna have to hurry up and get out of here so you can go home and cook. Gues what the day I got to go home I had to cook!
I was in there for 3 days, and he was not worried about me all he wanted was me home to cook and clean. The next day I had to go pay bills!! wound up back at the 2 days later in so much pain it was worse than having a baby. He didn't care or worry about me he was just worried about his stomach!!
Men just don't understand this one and I have been married to him for 21 years now.

 

[debilorrah]

Wow, I find some of these instances AMAZING! When I come home grumpy, my fiance tells the kids, dinner is freestyle tonight you want it you make, Deb doesn't feel good.

 

[Reinbeau]

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Are you kidding? He would have got a plate full of hot nothing - and liked it!! That's horrible!

 

[debilorrah]

I'm with Reinbeau on that one. My fiance would never treat me so badly.

 

[chickabator]

Honest that is the truth so help me. the saturday after the surgery I had to make a turkey dinner for him. I was released from the hospital on thursday

 

[WriterofWords]

I would never dream of staying with a man who treated me so badly. To each their own of course, but I value myself more than that, and if he can't, he can find someone else to take care of his lazy, selfish, piece garbage behind.

 

[debilorrah]

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Amen sister. I even managed to convince my fiance to take the new cats to the vet today!!!!

 

[WriterofWords]

My mom is reading over my shoulder and reminded me of when my face was rebuilt and I had tubes and such coming out of me like a horror movie and my EX husband suddenly had a sore throat and asked if I would spoon feed him pudding. I'd forgotten all about that instance, I can laugh now though!

I do have to say though, my step dad whom I call my dad, bends over backwards for mom if she so much as sneezes. He's a wonderful, dear, caring, fantastic, super, beautiful soul.

 

[WoodlandWoman]

It sounds like somebody's husband needs a map to the freezer section of the grocery store!

Chickabator, maybe once a month he needs to practice making dinner, so he knows how to do it in an emergency! It would be good for him. I KNOW it would be good for you.