My young boys picked sebrights to show in 4H. I regret that I didn't do any research on this breed. They are certainly very beautiful, but NOT docile and sweet compared to other possible breed choices you could make. They are definitely hyper and high maintenance. They DO also fly very well. We paid loads of attention to our brood when they were chicks, and they DID get tamed, but by comparison to other breeds, they were still somewhat wild. We could almost never catch them when they got out. They were bossy to other breeds as well. I would say if you are looking for something "sweet and loving" for a 10 year old, definitely try something else. I know 10-year olds and this age group would not put in the time necessary to make this bird a sweet pet. Try a Mille Fleur D'Uccle if you are looking for a super sweet bantam. Good luck!