I wish I had more land. If I did, I would grow more fruits and veggies, have a couple goats for milking, and lots more chicken. But I don't...
So it's my hubby and I, 4 chickens, and a small backyard. I grow some veggies, but it's not enough to last us the whole year or anything. Tomatoes are really the only thing I have in excess, so all the rest is eaten fresh. I try to live the "old fashioned way" too. I think it's great you are trying to figure it all out. I know for me I get frustrated by the things I can't do, but I try to think about all the things I can do and all the positive changes I have made. Even if I can't have everything from scratch all the time, I can have most things from scratch most of the time. Better than nothing.
As for kitchen gadgets, I really love my crockpot. It's the 3rd one I've had and I love it best. It has 3 different ceramic inserts to suit the size of your meal. It's awesome and the food cooks evenly. The Crockpot with the timers suck by the way. They burn everything. Just FYI. I've tried 2. I also like my Vitamix, but it's VERY expensive and I don't think you need to go there yet. I use my food processor a couple times a month to make almond butter. I try not to microwave any food and I don't use non-stick Teflon pans. I like the cast iron pans and I also found Green Pans at Target which are non-stick, but environmentally friendly and not bad like Teflon.
Here are some natural "old fashioned" ideas for you:
Almond butter - grind almonds in a food processor until pretty fine granules, then add unrefined coconut oil to the right taste and consistency, add a bit of raw honey and a dash of unrefined sea salt and you're done....it's sooooo good! Great on celery.
Chicken soup - take a roast chicken left over and stick it in a pot and cover with water. Add chopped celery and onions. Bring to boil and let cook for about 45 minutes. Take the roast out and let it cool, but leave the veggies in there. Add chopped carrots and bouillon to taste (I use Better Than Bouillon which has no MSG and is all natural). Let that cook for another 20-30 minutes. When the chicken is cool enough, break off the meat into bite size bits. Add to the soup and it's ready to go. You can add rice or noodles if you want. I eat it without any and add a little grated Parmesan cheese. Tasty!
Beef roast - (this is so easy a 6 year old could make it) Put a roast (chuck is probably best) in the crockpot. Cover (does not have to fill the pot) with a can of organic marinara (or one you make), and cook on low for 8-10 hours. Done. Told you it was easy. It's very tender and has a good flavor.
Chicken parm - Put chicken breasts on an oven ready dish and sprinkle with garlic salt, pepper, and a little onion powder. Put a little marinara sauce on each breast and stick in preheated overn (350) for 30 minutes. After the 30 minutes, add some parmesan cheese and mozzarella on top and cook for an additional 10-15 minutes. Done.
Yogurt - easy to make yourself. Get the starter, heat some milk, add to yogurt maker and you're done. You don't need a yogurt maker, but it makes it easier.
I better get back to work (slacker

), but I'll try to come back later with more ideas.
Bree