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Can I have one of you? You are awesome to pitch in. Obviously none of my biz...but why did SIL walk on eggshells around it? Hmmm. I am such a blunt bizatch, I have a hard time when people don't tell it to me straight.
Thats how the whole family is-blunt they are not. Mark's dad is the only one besides his Bro that will tell it like it is ... the rest wont say a word unless they are backed into a corner. hoping the other person doesnt find out-sorta like why tell if they wont find out anyway or hope they dont find out. Ive been pitching in since 2 hours after they closed on the restaurant. I go there everyday after my normal job to see if they need anything. I jump in behind the grill-dishes-waitressing ( also helps I was a waitress/manager for 15 years in the restaurants-LOL) didnt matter to me. I never asked for anything and I pay FOR EVERYTHING when we eat there I never expect a free ride. SHOOT even when she is cooking aND i WAIT on my self or family I clean up after us and I still leave a tip!!! But that drew the line for me. No more help-I will not be a jerk but I will not extend my neck out like that just to be hurt. The girl that showed up had never even waitreesed before-she was just a friend of a friend!!! I know SIL didnt do it to be a jerk but I can darn well bet a million bucks she was hoping I wouldnt show up this am to see that girl put my waitressing apron on!!!
Can I have one of you? You are awesome to pitch in. Obviously none of my biz...but why did SIL walk on eggshells around it? Hmmm. I am such a blunt bizatch, I have a hard time when people don't tell it to me straight.

Thats how the whole family is-blunt they are not. Mark's dad is the only one besides his Bro that will tell it like it is ... the rest wont say a word unless they are backed into a corner. hoping the other person doesnt find out-sorta like why tell if they wont find out anyway or hope they dont find out. Ive been pitching in since 2 hours after they closed on the restaurant. I go there everyday after my normal job to see if they need anything. I jump in behind the grill-dishes-waitressing ( also helps I was a waitress/manager for 15 years in the restaurants-LOL) didnt matter to me. I never asked for anything and I pay FOR EVERYTHING when we eat there I never expect a free ride. SHOOT even when she is cooking aND i WAIT on my self or family I clean up after us and I still leave a tip!!! But that drew the line for me. No more help-I will not be a jerk but I will not extend my neck out like that just to be hurt. The girl that showed up had never even waitreesed before-she was just a friend of a friend!!! I know SIL didnt do it to be a jerk but I can darn well bet a million bucks she was hoping I wouldnt show up this am to see that girl put my waitressing apron on!!!