I can't thank you enough for this advice. I was so jealous that everyone in the world seems to have tame silkies and I just seem to have unfriendly freaks, but no one has told me how to change that (until now). I'll give it a try and let you know how I go. Thank you again.You need to teach them to let you handle them. Pick them up when they are asleep at night. Sausage roll them in a towel and using baby nail scissors trim the feathers that actually block vision. Hold the head still with the hand that is not using the scissors. You probably don;t need to trim much to allow them to see better. Just enough that their eyes are not completely covered.
Afer the trim, unwrap and hold in your lap for awhile, gently stroking their back and under their beak (seem to love that). Try to get them to eat a treat from your hand. Repeat several evenings and you will have a devoted friend who comes running for cuddles.