Your girls need to be shown the judge's hold for picking up Silkies. A natural reaction of humans is to pick up chickens at the sides and squeeze if the chicken wriggles or flaps. The judge's hold will need training for both the chickens and the humans - scoop one hand under the front breast of the chicken and with the other hand hold the wings down from the top and then cuddle against your torso to make the chicken feel secure (this prevents having to pick up or squeeze on their reproductive sides). Our old 4-yr Silkie is very accustomed and calm about this method since we've been using it on her since she was a chick. Our large fowl came to be comfortable with the judge's hold too. It takes a little patience and practice since chickens naturally don't like to be held in any manner but they eventually come to trust you. Enjoy your new sweeties, and the girls too - Smiles.