Silkiecuddles Chat Thread!!! ANYBODY welcome!!!

[dan26552]

Aww

 

[dan26552]

 

[Americano Blue]

 

[dan26552]

 

[dan26552]

 

[Gloryjasmine]

I'm sorry to hear that! It's hard online because sometimes things sound meaner than they were supposed to be. Like if you have one tone of voice in your head and the reader another. Well, I'll always be here for you! And anyone else

Yea me too. Basically the message to me was I've been here longer than you so that entitles me to do whatever. Wow. That hurt. I was asked how many people I've helped. Like its a contest. It's not at all just about helping others;but also about being helped. Learning. Growing. It bums me out that he/she was so offended by the chatting(and I reckon my response)that they decided to leave. I hope possibly that we can move beyond this and perhaps they'll return. But,I respect their decision. I totally agree with you regarding the "tone" comment. You're so right. That's why I usually use emojis. But I am pretty bold,so yea I can see it sounding super aggressive. But in my heart,it's not meant that way. Anywho.... Glad it's calming down and that we're all still in communication.

MPB- I love your frilkie,,Phoenix!!! I'm about to acquire a few new hens. I'm almost certain one if not two are silkies!! Woot woot!

 

[Mountain Peeps]

 

[dan26552]

 

[sjturner79]

love it! The little white one, right?

Yes, the only one I have that looks like it's true to type for silkie . The rest has obvious non-silkie quality combs and stuff

 

[MadamPoofyBrow]

Yea me too. Basically the message to me was I've been here longer than you so that entitles me to do whatever. Wow. That hurt. I was asked how many people I've helped. Like its a contest. It's not at all just about helping others;but also about being helped. Learning. Growing. It bums me out that he/she was so offended by the chatting(and I reckon my response)that they decided to leave. I hope possibly that we can move beyond this and perhaps they'll return. But,I respect their decision. I totally agree with you regarding the "tone" comment. You're so right. That's why I usually use emojis. But I am pretty bold,so yea I can see it sounding super aggressive. But in my heart,it's not meant that way. Anywho.... Glad it's calming down and that we're all still in communication.

MPB- I love your frilkie,,Phoenix!!! I'm about to acquire a few new hens. I'm almost certain one if not two are silkies!! Woot woot!

WOW! I never knew this was a contest! I mean come on, we were all newbies once! I still am actually...I try to help, I try to learn, and I try to be nice! I dunno how many people you've helped, but I'm on the list somewhere! I'm new, and the chatting on the story made me feel welcome. Nothing you said ever came across as aggressive, rude, or unnecessary to me. You seem like a peacekeeper. I never looked at your join date until today, and realized you're newer then me, which I never would have guessed!

by the way! Anyway, you're awesome!

Hopefully everyone will realize we're tryna keep this fun for everyone and come back. No one's unwanted, we're just tryna reach an understanding with everyone else.


Congrats on your new hens!! If you haven't already, you'll fall in love with Silkies soon!