Okay, I'm an RN with a bachelor's in nursing science, a minor in psychology and a minor in gerontology. I've got a huge background in understanding behavior, and my 7 year old has me absolutely, positively baffled.
She absolutely will not go to sleep. We have a rock solid bedtime routine, clean up time, snack time, brush teeth, wash up, get the bed ready, pjs on, story, prayers, good night. My 4 year old is out in literally, 5 minutes. My 7 year old, she will lay in there for hours. 1 o'clock, 2 o'clock in the morning, I'll be awakened by a noise, and she's in there screwing around with things.
Her brother and her play HARD all day. We have 13 acres, chickens, ducks, kitties, bunnies, dogs, a power wheel, a trampoline, a play gym, they're not sitting in front of the TV all day or plugged into a gaming system. Computer time and TV time are privileges earned by chores, etc. If she completes her chores, which are simple things like putting her plate in the sink after meals, clothes in the hamper, pick up toys, etc, she gets an hour of TV or a half hour of computer or Wii time.
I've discussed it with her. She's a very articulate child. She and her brother are raised to question and discuss everything. I don't feel like there's something she's afraid to tell me. She says there's no fear, no bad dreams, we have plenty of night lights, her bed is comfortable, she has her favorite stuffed animals, etc. She simply says she can't turn her mind off.
There are no TV's on at bedtime, I usually sit down and crochet, and check my Facebook and BYC, so the house is quiet, except for the peeps in the brooders, a sound I'm sure by now, she's quite used to.
We live in the country, so there's no traffic noise, sirens, barking dogs, etc. I've tried leaving the radio on low, I got her a white noise machine, nothing works.
We're a stable family, my husband and I are both gainfully employed, happily married, money is stable, we're not struggling. There's no abuse in the home, or fighting.
I'm simply stumped. Is this an age thing I'm putting too much into? She's been like this for 8 or 9 weeks. I'm frustrated because I get up fpr work at 445 AM on the days I work, and man, I'm tired! I don't feel comfortable going to bed until my husband gets home from work, or she is asleep. The nights my husband works until 1 AM, I'm not getting into bed some nights until 1200-100 AM and getting up at 445. It's rough.
I always discuss it in a calm manner, so I don't feel like she's feeding off the attention. She simply cannot or will not let herself go to sleep.
Any advice is appreciated. I'm on the verge of taking her to the doctor's for it.
Thanks-
Blessings-
Em
She absolutely will not go to sleep. We have a rock solid bedtime routine, clean up time, snack time, brush teeth, wash up, get the bed ready, pjs on, story, prayers, good night. My 4 year old is out in literally, 5 minutes. My 7 year old, she will lay in there for hours. 1 o'clock, 2 o'clock in the morning, I'll be awakened by a noise, and she's in there screwing around with things.
Her brother and her play HARD all day. We have 13 acres, chickens, ducks, kitties, bunnies, dogs, a power wheel, a trampoline, a play gym, they're not sitting in front of the TV all day or plugged into a gaming system. Computer time and TV time are privileges earned by chores, etc. If she completes her chores, which are simple things like putting her plate in the sink after meals, clothes in the hamper, pick up toys, etc, she gets an hour of TV or a half hour of computer or Wii time.
I've discussed it with her. She's a very articulate child. She and her brother are raised to question and discuss everything. I don't feel like there's something she's afraid to tell me. She says there's no fear, no bad dreams, we have plenty of night lights, her bed is comfortable, she has her favorite stuffed animals, etc. She simply says she can't turn her mind off.
There are no TV's on at bedtime, I usually sit down and crochet, and check my Facebook and BYC, so the house is quiet, except for the peeps in the brooders, a sound I'm sure by now, she's quite used to.
We live in the country, so there's no traffic noise, sirens, barking dogs, etc. I've tried leaving the radio on low, I got her a white noise machine, nothing works.
We're a stable family, my husband and I are both gainfully employed, happily married, money is stable, we're not struggling. There's no abuse in the home, or fighting.
I'm simply stumped. Is this an age thing I'm putting too much into? She's been like this for 8 or 9 weeks. I'm frustrated because I get up fpr work at 445 AM on the days I work, and man, I'm tired! I don't feel comfortable going to bed until my husband gets home from work, or she is asleep. The nights my husband works until 1 AM, I'm not getting into bed some nights until 1200-100 AM and getting up at 445. It's rough.
I always discuss it in a calm manner, so I don't feel like she's feeding off the attention. She simply cannot or will not let herself go to sleep.
Any advice is appreciated. I'm on the verge of taking her to the doctor's for it.
Thanks-
Blessings-
Em