so mad a dh right now pic added

[mickistoy]

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there are times when I agree with that. however chucking birds into a totaly unsafe coop and selling her other coop without her permission while she wasent home is selfish and rude, not to even mention stupid because of the pred issue.

she also taught me discretion was the better part of valor!

 

[sonew123]

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Always, Always.................... TOUCH THE TOOLS. My husband can't stand it, it must be a man thing!!

He might not be happy, but you and the chickies will be.

He'll get over it. Go ask him if you can get him anything. Just make sure to let him know that you really appreciate him fixing it for it. A little honey goes a long way.

LOL Mine bought me my own tool box because "I touched the tools" so much.

 

[babyblue]

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there are times when I agree with that. however chucking birds into a totaly unsafe coop and selling her other coop without her permission while she wasent home is selfish and rude, not to even mention stupid because of the pred issue.

she also taught me discretion was the better part of valor!

I was taught that a marriage works both ways threw open communication and working together. not endless stupidity from one partner and endless sacrifice from the other. treating your spouse as they want to be treated and listening and caring for their opinion and feelings. it is most defiantly unfair and without valor or discretion to allow your spouse to bully or act like a brat just for the sake of it.

 

[In His Service]

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Always, Always.................... TOUCH THE TOOLS. My husband can't stand it, it must be a man thing!!

He might not be happy, but you and the chickies will be.

He'll get over it. Go ask him if you can get him anything. Just make sure to let him know that you really appreciate him fixing it for it. A little honey goes a long way.

I agree. Also as Tiffany said, don't give attitude, just a peck and a cold drink. Let him know that you are concerned that all your(plural) efforts and money would be wasted if something happened to the birds (not to mention how sad you would be). (If at all possible, as far as it depends upon you, live at peace one with another).

 

[luvchicks8]

The birds are safe now. Thanks everyone I just needed to vent I was afraid for my birds. He did take care of it and is relaxing for the night and now I can sleep tonight. Can't wait to post pics of there new home when it is all finished abd Dh has done a great job on it it is just not all finished.

 

[mickistoy]

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she also taught me discretion was the better part of valor!

I was taught that a marriage works both ways threw open communication and working together. not endless stupidity from one partner and endless sacrifice from the other. treating your spouse as they want to be treated and listening and caring for their opinion and feelings. it is most defiantly unfair and without valor or discretion to allow your spouse to bully or act like a brat just for the sake of it.

interesting how everyone is upset at him but we still dont know ALL the facts. glad this is not a court room......defense atty would not get a chance to stand up before "the jury" yelled guilty! we as of yet dont know what all communication has transpired to this point.

 

[Wolfwoman]

I build my own coop and tractors and have my own tools to do so. We share some of the more expensive ones. My chickens, my job to take care of them. On the other hand, he wants a Flemish Giant, and I told him, his rabbit, his responsibility. I don't see a rabbit yet.

 

[~*Sweet Cheeks*~]

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I was taught that a marriage works both ways threw open communication and working together. not endless stupidity from one partner and endless sacrifice from the other. treating your spouse as they want to be treated and listening and caring for their opinion and feelings. it is most defiantly unfair and without valor or discretion to allow your spouse to bully or act like a brat just for the sake of it.

interesting how everyone is upset at him but we still dont know ALL the facts. glad this is not a court room......defense atty would not get a chance to stand up before "the jury" yelled guilty! we as of yet dont know what all communication has transpired to this point.

I'm not mad at him. He's out there putting up hardware cloth.

I think you are the issue at this point.

 

[mickistoy]

~*Sweet Cheeks*~ :

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interesting how everyone is upset at him but we still dont know ALL the facts. glad this is not a court room......defense atty would not get a chance to stand up before "the jury" yelled guilty! we as of yet dont know what all communication has transpired to this point.

I'm not mad at him. He's out there putting up hardware cloth.

I think you are the issue at this point.​

 

[Tiffany]

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Always, Always.................... TOUCH THE TOOLS. My husband can't stand it, it must be a man thing!!

He might not be happy, but you and the chickies will be.

He'll get over it. Go ask him if you can get him anything. Just make sure to let him know that you really appreciate him fixing it for it. A little honey goes a long way.

I agree. Also as Tiffany said, don't give attitude, just a peck and a cold drink. Let him know that you are concerned that all your(plural) efforts and money would be wasted if something happened to the birds (not to mention how sad you would be). (If at all possible, as far as it depends upon you, live at peace one with another).

My grandma always tell me you get more with honey, and i love watching his chest puff up like a roster when I
peck him and prance away lol.