Hey Karen. Folks around here will tell you I am the resident B**** when it comes to cancer attitudes. The biggest thing that is going to get you and your son through this is attitude. You must BELIEVE that this is benign for it to be so. Loose all doubt. It is the fear of what could be that brings us all down. Loose it! You start fighting now if you/he plans on beating this. I have lost too many family members. I REFUSE to let it get me too. I've been fighting for over 3 years now. I've been knocked down, on my knees many times, but I keep getting back up. You will get all the support you need and more with these folks. Start fighting!
Deerman--oh my friend, I know well how tiring it can get. But you know as well as I do, if we give in the jerk wins. So much time spent sick, not doing things we want to do, people we thought would always be there have disappeared because they couldn't handle the Big C. We could say the h*ll with it. Let it take over and be done with it. But that's not who we are. We keep fighting because there are people depending on us. Depending on us to hold them up, to be there, to survive. So we keep fighting and we will keep doing so until the end comes after a long hard battle. We will raise our arms in triumph! I WIN!!!
I go in tomorrow to have yet another port put in. This make #4! Back on the Herceptin next week.
Keep fighting!!!!!