I'm glad I could help a bit. I've done a few rounds with this, before getting to this point where I decided to just stay positive about everything. I lost a dear aunt to cancer about 2 years ago. Hers started with breast cancer, came back and spread and ended up taking her. During all that she was so amazingly POSITIVE and cheerful and she made the most of the time left to her. Got herself a boyfriend with a bike and she was off with him, having fun until she couldn't any more… I'm smile now, thinking about that. My mom was horrified by her behaviour! lol But I loved how she was so positive and cheerful in spite of everything and that inspires me.
I am also trying to do like your mom did and just continue living life and not let this disrupt things too much. It's not easy some days, when I first got diagnosed I was angry and upset, I remember saying to someone it felt like my body let me down, doing that. But they got it out and I got given a second chance and I switched to thinking "This could've killed me, 100 years ago this WOULD'VE killed me. But with today's modern medicines, science, surgeries etc, we can and will deal with this, so thank you for that."
Yup..... Great post. Totally agree....
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