Just a little background. My son is 30 years old, been married for 5 years, they have one child, a dtr age 4. They live in my rental house for 2 years, have yet to ever give me rent. She sits and reads and chain smokes all day and doesn't keep a proper house either. My son put his foot down and told his wife that she has to get a full time job by end of july or else. So she is packing it up and moving 3 hours away to MO. She says she will live with her sister and get a job there, but somehow can't seem to get a job in IL. She says she gets no support here. ( how much more help can you get than free rent). This woman and I had a discussion a year ago I was willing to help out if she would go to school in the interim. She has yet to do that also. I am so ticked off about this. My granddaughter is desparate to go to school, has a speech impediment and needs therapy (her mom never would sign her up for early intervention). Ashlee says that she feels like she will abandon her child if she works...........well, didn't we all feel that way but we still did what we had to do to provide for our families??? Did I say how ticked off that my granddaughter is moving away???? I babysat her at least once a week and it breaks my heart that she will be so far away.