Ok....Ladies and maybe Gents?? It took me awhile to catch up on the reading...I've had a sick Roo!!
SMom...that first batch is beautiful...I believe you may have cut just a little too early. Non gelled soap needs a full 48 hours of curing prior to cutting...it is less sticky this way and your swirls will disappear as you get further into the cure. Great job...looks like you had fun and got your DH involved too! Hint...I stir to prevent the heat reaction in the beginning of the gel stage...it still heats but the stirring cools it down considerably...and my soap never reaches the black/brown stage. Still fabulous soap...another plus to non gelled soap is that you never run the risk of a batch exploding.
BB...beet juice does change color in the lye...you get an earthy brownish red. Not the desired pink...beet powder would be the 'natural' pink or use the oxides or even clay.
Chickenwhisperer...IF and whenever anyone tells me they had a reaction to any soaps that I made...I tell them to discontinue use, get to the allergist/dermatologist, and I give them a 100% refund. Although...this had never happened to me...I had to come up with a plan in case it ever did.
To Gel or NOT to Gel is strictly a preference...you decide which one you like. There are many pro soapers who do not gel...truly it depends on the recipe. Milk and Juice are the ones I prevent the gel in.
I just got a 200 bar order from a Spa/Salon in Richmond VA...the owner ordered 4 different soaps. AND I've got to update my website with my NEW Valentine's Day Themed photo styled jpg...so I have got to get busy!! The most fun is the photo styling!!
Good Luck to you all on your learning...