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And yet then you get the "trophies and blue ribbons for EVERYONE!"
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I had a group of parents want us to do that for the horse shows we had on base.
"All the kids deserve a first place ribbon"
Uh. "No. Not all the kids deserve a first place blue ribbon!"
I was not going to pay a judge to come in and "judge" a class to only have all the kids get a blue.
It isnt fair to the kids that go to the stables daily and take lessons. Groom their ponies and horses, braid them properly. Clean their tack and present themselves to the highest standards. Boots polished. Clean riding pants. etc etc.
To end the class standing next to a kid wearing torn jeans on a filthy pony, after said kid and pony tore around the ring with no control or discipline. To have that kid also get a first place ribbon? Nope. Not on my watch.
It's disheartening to the kids, parents, instructors and even to the horses and ponies who can pick up on how their people "feel"
And that they still have classes like this, even for adults. Makes me ill.
Not everyone deserves a blue ribbon. Or a promotion. etc. Heck I am pretty sure not everyone that gets one deserves a million dollar bonus
And yet then you get the "trophies and blue ribbons for EVERYONE!"
group.

I had a group of parents want us to do that for the horse shows we had on base.
"All the kids deserve a first place ribbon"
Uh. "No. Not all the kids deserve a first place blue ribbon!"
I was not going to pay a judge to come in and "judge" a class to only have all the kids get a blue.
It isnt fair to the kids that go to the stables daily and take lessons. Groom their ponies and horses, braid them properly. Clean their tack and present themselves to the highest standards. Boots polished. Clean riding pants. etc etc.
To end the class standing next to a kid wearing torn jeans on a filthy pony, after said kid and pony tore around the ring with no control or discipline. To have that kid also get a first place ribbon? Nope. Not on my watch.
It's disheartening to the kids, parents, instructors and even to the horses and ponies who can pick up on how their people "feel"
And that they still have classes like this, even for adults. Makes me ill.
Not everyone deserves a blue ribbon. Or a promotion. etc. Heck I am pretty sure not everyone that gets one deserves a million dollar bonus