You all seem very good at giveing opinions and advice so I figure maybe you can help my persepctive. I got a call late last night from someone that was a close friend of mine for sevral years when I was young. I feel horrible cuase I have spent years avoiding her , Im not useually like that but she is mentally ill and I am truely afraid of what would happen if she new where I lived ect. Not to mention her long time boyfriend is a freaky creep , try wakeing up at 2 in the morning to your friends boyfriend high as a kite standing over youre bed The christian empathetic part of me feels so awful , she was my friend I use to tell her all the time Id love her no matter what and always be there , but between the drugs the boyfriend and the mental illness I just cant. She was so desprate sounding last night she woudnt tell me where she was ( its possible she was back in the mental hospital ) she was so lonely she has no friends no family even her mom finnaly had enough and moved out of state , her sister has custody of her kids. I do not bealve she is a bad person but I dont trust mine or more importatnlty my sons saftey if i were to get close to her again what can I do does anyone have any ideas?