So dh, who hasn't done one dish, since Saterday. Complained about kitchen being a mess! I am here, 1 hr. after he leaves for work. I make lunches, shower, feed kids, dress kids, put there where they need to be. (Do chickens chores/take care of dog) In evening I get home about an hr before. I empty lunch cans, start supper, take care of dog, start fire, do chicken chores so yes I get home earlier, but I do things.. Anywhoo, I just got told, the house would be spotless if I just put away, the things I use.. He just found treasers on lazy boy. Yes I dropped the ball, on this one thing. But really, he has no idea, what goes on here. I just have 2 extra hrs. then him.. Grr.. I don't stop. Tweasers were there because dd 5 would not let me get splinter out. I tried 3 times, 3rd time, I left tools on table.. DD 3 played with them! Yes I should've put them away. But really. Spend at least a day in my shoes before you judge! He says has it so much harder cause he leaves an hour before me, and gets home an hours after! Really, do you get home with tired, hungry kids, feed them, take dog out, water chickens/ get eggs. Start fire, get everyone in jammies. Do homework, Start his supper, and really you gonna complain about tweasers? AHh... He does work really hard.. but just thinks taking care of getting kids ready for day or night doesn't count. He got ID'd at daycare to pick up DD, cause they don't know him. In over 5 years he's done 1 pick up.. Really, yes, If I put away those trweaser, our house would be spotless! yup.. lol BTW, kitchen was not a huge mess.. A few dirty dishes, dishwasher was running. And garbage needed to be emptied. Really, cause if he saw what that kitchen put s out in one day.. So I'm on "not happy list" Really... Wish me luck!