I like most spiders, especially the orbs. I'm not a recluse fan. I have two ankle scars from not shaking out my boots properly. My ex and 3 of my kids were spider phobic. He was careful not to react in front of the kids. I think it's genetic. I used a spider in a jar to desensitize my sons and while they still don't like them, the panic is gone. My DD would have none of it. She's 28 and still runs, shakes and screams.