Spitting nails I am SO upset!

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Some of you may remember that my 8 year old was being bullied at school about her religion. She handled it well and it seemed to have stopped. Today I was at the school dropping off eggs when I ran into the bully's mother. I was going to walk by but she stopped me.

After the merest moment of pleasantries she launched into me about what a bad mother I am for not bringing my daughter to jesus. I was ready to just walk away when she said the one thing that threw me over the edge.

"My daughter knows that jesus told her she has to save your daughter's soul, so don't expect her to stop trying to save her because she knows that is what jesus wants her to do and she wants to avoid going to hell so she'll keep at your daughter until she is saved from you and your wickedness."

I may not have it exactly right because my ears were ringing by time she finished I was so angry.

I said, "How DARE you pretend to speak in jesus' name and tell your daughter any such thing! No where does the bible put the responsibility for another person's soul in the hands of a child. There is nothing I could teach my daughter that would be as evil as telling an 8 year old that they were going to hell for failing to save another child's soul."

The discussion went down hill from there. I never cursed at her or threatened her with anything other than calling CPS on her for emotional abuse. I told her she needed to go back to the Bible because apparently she had missed a few passages. I turned right back around and went back into the school and warned the principle and guidance counselor about this mother. It seemed clear to me that they were aware that she was nutters but could not say so. lucky me and my poor daughter that this woman should become obsessed with us!

The school was supportive and understanding. Hopefully we can keep it all aimed at me and leave my poor daughter out of it.

That poor little girl! "jesus save me from your followers!"

(Trust me I am fully aware that THIS is not Christianity!)

Oh Good Lord! This poor Child! I am a Christian and was raised as such and I can tell you this is wrong.
Get me this ladies name and phone humber, I will have my mother call her a quote her from the bible everything that makes doing this to your own child so wrong!
Honestly, as much as I may get jumped on for saying this, if this person is saying this to you she is likely putting a load on her child and that is, in my opinion, a form of child abuse.​
 
A bully is a bully. The fact that she is using the bible as a tool for her bullying is just disgusting and insulting to those who really base their life on the bible's teachings.
 
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lol! I probably would have been the same way! After I got past the "oh no she didn't" part!! It would have been ugly! I can't stand the "my God is the right God or you are going to hell" people! And to my kids???? OH NO!
 
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Oh Good Lord! This poor Child! I am a Christian and was raised as such and I can tell you this is wrong.
Get me this ladies name and phone humber, I will have my mother call her a quote her from the bible everything that makes doing this to your own child so wrong!
Honestly, as much as I may get jumped on for saying this, if this person is saying this to you she is likely putting a load on her child and that is, in my opinion, a form of child abuse.

Woot! I wish I had her info i would give it to you.
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I admit, I learned the bible front to back and back to front but it was as a defense. I was never one to follow blindly...and when you preach something that I cannot find in that book...we have a problem houston. Such as calling the Priest "father" I refused! I could find nothing in the Bible that said I was allowed to or was supposed to but I found many places where it said I should not. LOL
 
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Some Christian people just tend to pick the wrong reasons to go on Crusade.
Why do some people just HAVE to stick a nose in someones private matters or decisions ?
Does the feeling being involved in such a action provoke some type on excitement for them ?
Witnessing is one thing but utterly forcing beliefs is another.
 
You know, growing up I had a friend whose family were nudists, not something my family believed in, did my Christian parents tell them they were wrong and going to Hell??? No in fact my mother drove me to their house on several occassions for visits.
My parents embraced my friends no matter their beliefs. This is what true Christianity is all about.
 
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Good for you. As a parent who was verbally assaulted by another parent while picking our daughters up from an afterschool program, I know somewhat where you are coming from. My incident wasn't over religion, it was over a parking space. This crazy man followed me into the school, telling me how horrible I am, what a horrible parent I am, Etc. ( no, I did NOT steal his parking space, he just didn't like where I parked)
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He continued his tirade in the classroom, waited until I got my Daughter and continued the whole way out of the school. At one point in all of this, as we were leaving the building he told me That I just thought I was better than him and I was raising my children to be criminals(he's dragging his little girl behind him and she crying "Daddy why are you yelling at the lady?"). After that I got in his face and told him that he did not live in my house, therefore he had not right to judge my parenting skills and furthermore that I AM better than him because I would NEVER dream of acting this way in front of my children or anyone else's children. There were 2 teachers and 20 children in the classroom. When I called the next morning to report to the school what had happened, I find out that I'm not the first or second person he has done this to, I'm like number 23 in the long line of people that this guy had verbally attacked. This man has done this to falculty, parents, heck everyone including the principal BUT he is this girl's only parent and they can't block him from coming onto school grounds. The school board will not let them. I was told to make a police report. I did. I also pulled my daughter out of the afterschool program because she should be safe at school and never be exposed to that kind of behavior, EVER!!! I felt it was in her best interest to never be exposed to that man again!! So, I'm glad to see a fellow parent standing up for her child and her child's right to be safe at school.
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Woot lockedhearts! Exactly. My best friend in this world...a woman I would die for without hesitation..is a Pagan, married to a wonderful man and they are engaged to a wonderful woman and her house is clothing optional. I have no doubt that I will see her in the afterlife.
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I share your disgust for that kind religion. But please don't tar us all with the same brush--there are many churches that absolutely DO NOT teach such things. Unfortunately the ones that do give all of us a bad name with non-Christians.

I would have been beyond livid with someone approaching me like that. I'm glad to hear that the school is handling it--my way of dealing with it would probably be nastier & I'd be sitting in church on Sunday morning contemplating my lack of forgiveness & Christian charity:D.
 
Whew what a mess for your DD.
Words of encouragement here.
I also am a Pagan. I wear my Pentacle on my finger right in plain sight.
My oldest and her children , including the one that lives with me have been taught from an early age.
Religion is preference, they are free to make up their own minds, when they decide Which they chose to worship it is perfectly fine with me.
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A very simple way to put an end to this is :
to let your daughter tell the bully child ( taught reaction not one of choice most time).
That fine while she is praying for your DD enlightenment your DD will be praying for hers.
this response works almost every time.
 
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