Your experience is not unique, unfortunately. It's getting harder to find friends and mentors that are passionate about the breed itself, instead of their glory or profit. To some extent, I understand; there has been an influx of breeders who are totally in it for the money, and hatcheries creating new fancy hybrids to cater to the "shiny new toy" crowd. Raising show poultry is inherently competitive, and everyone seems to want something for nothing, so I can't fault them for that, but I agree that the number of memberships, annual fees, etc. is getting out of hand, when there are few rewards for those investments and it's just basically pay-to-play.
My intent was not to insult you for using the online one, my beef is with the myriad of online sellers that are printing it out and trying to pass it off as official (and charging accordingly). For people that have never seen one or don't really know what they're looking for, it's a pretty crappy experience to get taken like that. I've noticed those books popping up across genres, I think due to Google's project Gutenberg, and having a bit of a background in open source software, it just ticks me off.
I'd also like to say that it sucks how Puerto Rico is treated in so many areas. I'm sorry. I never found an APA Standard in my wanderings, although I did find an ABA one for a reasonable price, but if I ever run across one, I'll try to remember to PM and see if you still need it. I am going to look up something I ran across and PM you that I think might help.